The Motivator – My Personal thoughts

What I like about being a Motivator

  • I am outgoing, optimistic, friendly and lively.
  • I am able to pick myself up quickly from setbacks and take on a new challenge.
  • I am a competent and efficient worker and provider.
  • I am good at getting people going.

What I don’t like about being a Motivator

  • I find it hard to tolerate inefficiency and incompetence.
  • I fear not being recognised by others as successful.
  • I can put on a ‘mask’ in order to impress.
  • I take on too many projects at once.

Things I would never do

  • Fail to set big goals for myself.
  • Stop “seducing” or “manipulating” people.
  • Fail to take over a meeting when it is being run inefficiently.
  • Spend a week in silent meditation.

How to relate with me

  • Leave me alone to work.
  • Give me honest, but fair, feedback.
  • Be positive.
  • Tell me you like being with me.
  • Congratulate me on my accomplishments.
  • Don’t criticise my ideas too strongly.

Things people say about me

  • “He has a talent for creativity and is always enthusiastic and cheerful.”
  • “He is charming and makes everyone feel special and important.”
  • “He is focused and purposeful – a natural leader.”

Things I should affirm to myself

  • My feelings are as important as my accomplishments.
  • I will take more time to relax.
  • I will stop comparing myself to others.