What I like about being a Motivator

• I am outgoing, optimistic, friendly and lively.
• I am able to pick myself up quickly from setbacks and take on a new challenge.
• I am a competent and efficient worker and provider.
• I am good at getting people going.

What I don’t like about being a Motivator

• I find it hard to tolerate inefficiency and incompetence.
• I fear not being recognised by others as successful.
• I can put on a ‘mask’ in order to impress.
• I take on too many projects at once.

Things I would never do

• Fail to set big goals for myself.
• Stop “seducing” or “manipulating” people.
• Fail to take over a meeting when it is being run inefficiently.
• Spend a week in silent meditation.

How to relate with me

• Leave me alone to work.
• Give me honest, but fair, feedback.
• Be positive.
• Tell me you like being with me.
• Congratulate me on my accomplishments.
• Don’t criticise my ideas too strongly.

Things people say about me

• “He has a talent for creativity and is always enthusiastic and cheerful.”
• “He is charming and makes everyone feel special and important.”
• “He is focused and purposeful – a natural leader.”

Things I should affirm to myself

• My feelings are as important as my accomplishments.
• I will take more time to relax.
• I will stop comparing myself to others.