The Reformer – My Personal thoughts

What I like about being a Reformer

  • I am self-disciplined and have achieved many things.
  • I have high standards and ethics and never compromise myself.
  • I am reasonable, responsible and dedicated to everything I do.
  • I like to be the best that I can be.

What I don’t like about being a Reformer

  • I’m disappointed with myself and others for not meeting my expectations.
  • I’m a perfectionist and not always appreciated by people.
  • I get angry when other people don’t try as hard as I do.
  • I am too intense about everything and burdened by responsibilities.

Things I would never do

  • Laugh off criticism
  • Forgive myself for making mistakes.
  • Neglect my own interests.
  • Be late for an appointment.

How to relate with me

  • Help to share some of the responsibility.
  • Congratulate me on my achievements.
  • Help me to be less critical.
  • Show me you value my advice
  • Encourage me to take myself less seriously.
  • Apologise if you have upset me, it will help me to forgive.

Things people say about me

  • “He is a perfectionist and works hard at getting everything right.”
  • “He can be relied on to finish an assignment, even if it means taking the work home.”
  • “He won’t do anything he believes is unethical.”

Things I should affirm to myself

  • It’s all right to relax and laugh at myself.
  • It’s all right to make mistakes.
  • I will learn not to take myself too seriously or constantly demand perfection.